educational level? replied by song-of-life @ Wed, 30 Jul 2008 02:01:13 +0800

song-of-life — Wed, 30 Jul 2008 02:01:13 +0800

On par or higher.

But imagine, won't you be living in stress if your husband were to attain a very high level of education while you a mere O level grad? Must be realistic la uh.

Most important, is that he cherishes me, have a good attitude and has stability prospects for the future.

educational level? replied by shuibianni05 @ Mon, 28 Jul 2008 16:20:07 +0800

shuibianni05 — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 16:20:07 +0800

Education is not a major factor, unless one belongs to the category of needing to 'being on par' with each other.

Instead, in any relationship, communication is very important.

If you are able to blend into each other's lives, able to understand the topics discussed by each other's friends, able to join in etc, it's more than enough.

The problems will start when ur partner is discussing about some work-related issues or some general stuff which u aren't interested in or not able to understand (this is the worst).

You will feel isolated, uncomfy, and even edgy at not being able to join in. Most likely problems will start to crop up at this point.

Take mine for example, in terms of education, I am holding a cert much higher than my partner. But, both of us are fine with it, I don't go around telling people what cert I have or boost around; thus in a way, he's spared the torture of it.

But, in terms of social gatherings, that's where the problems arises. I can blend into his friends' discussions, no matter what they are talking about.

But, he cant understand nor speak a single word throughout my social gatherings, except for ordering food and excusing himself to go to the Gents. Apparently, he blew up that night and insisted we should break off, only to come back two days later, saying he's sorry.

It has nothing to do with Education level, because there was another time when I brought another guy friend (my buddy) along; despite differences in education level, he was able to blend in and talk and laughed with all my friends.

All in all, it just shows how important communication is and also, whether one is willing to listen and understand and put in the efforts.

Because, ultimately, I asked my guy friend why's the difference between him and my partner. He gave me the following reply.

"I don't really understand what ur friends are talking about; but it's always good to know more things; whatever I don't understand I just ask and share whatever I know. I will make a joke when any one say wrong, including myself. It's just a casual chat, nothing big deal. Just be urself."

educational level? replied by Beautiful951 @ Mon, 28 Jul 2008 12:26:23 +0800

Beautiful951 — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 12:26:23 +0800

Originally posted by fatone:

Love is a tragic tale.

In which the hero dies in the first chapter

educational level? replied by codexboy @ Mon, 28 Jul 2008 12:25:00 +0800

codexboy — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 12:25:00 +0800

the thing is if u are talking aout relationships ending with marriage, then education hs to play a part cos after awhile the differences can be seen, especially if the girl is a greater achiever than the guy, might have some inferiority complex problems straining relationships

educational level? replied by Fatum @ Sun, 27 Jul 2008 21:19:12 +0800

Fatum — Sun, 27 Jul 2008 21:19:12 +0800

Originally posted by fatone:

You haven't been in my life, you will never know my pain.

Love, a dreadful bond, and yet, so easily severed.

maybe you need to see a shrink dude .... before you turn into a real psycho ...

educational level? replied by fatone @ Sun, 27 Jul 2008 18:17:40 +0800

fatone — Sun, 27 Jul 2008 18:17:40 +0800

Love is a tragic tale.

educational level? replied by parn @ Fri, 25 Jul 2008 06:53:38 +0800

parn — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 06:53:38 +0800

Originally posted by Yohoro:

When you guys look for your partners right, do you all really look into the educational level of that person? like for example a girl wanna have a boyfriend that has rather good result in school or university?

No, educational level DOES NOT measures WISDOM, IQ, INTELLIGENCE of a person.

Educational level is for to retards to think that they are smart.

educational level? replied by fatone @ Fri, 25 Jul 2008 04:12:28 +0800

fatone — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 04:12:28 +0800

Originally posted by Fatum:

you need a real shrink dude .....

You haven't been in my life, you will never know my pain.

Love, a dreadful bond, and yet, so easily severed.

educational level? replied by KELVIN! @ Fri, 25 Jul 2008 04:03:49 +0800

KELVIN! — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 04:03:49 +0800

not really. as long as can "click" can liao. when you can click .. it most likely means that you do whatever she do eh ? So meaning ... if she is stupid in a way, in front of the public. you will be one too =D

educational level? replied by Fatum @ Fri, 25 Jul 2008 04:00:05 +0800

Fatum — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 04:00:05 +0800

Originally posted by fatone:

It's not important at all.

If the hearts connect, nothing else is important.

I too met a girl near and dear to me,

However she cut out my heart making me cold and cruel so basically I became evil, I became her devil.

Everyday, I will make her heart bleed and she shall slowly die till I feel warmth again.

The pain she caused me was too much to live with, but not enough to kill me.

you need a real shrink dude .....

educational level? replied by Lorry` @ Fri, 25 Jul 2008 03:43:21 +0800

Lorry` — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 03:43:21 +0800

I dont really care.... but she must have some intelligence.... know what im talkin.. can click that kind.

educational level? replied by Darkness_hacker99 @ Thu, 24 Jul 2008 02:15:55 +0800

Darkness_hacker99 — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 02:15:55 +0800

No.

educational level? replied by ChiBet @ Mon, 21 Jul 2008 10:33:33 +0800

ChiBet — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 10:33:33 +0800

highly educated people are too uptight and full of themselves to make a good mate

educational level? replied by BadzMaro @ Mon, 21 Jul 2008 06:19:25 +0800

BadzMaro — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 06:19:25 +0800

Back on the track. Hard as hell . but u did not expect. The candy man. The quaker. The plane shifter.

educational level? replied by fatone @ Mon, 21 Jul 2008 04:41:04 +0800

fatone — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 04:41:04 +0800

It's not important at all.

If the hearts connect, nothing else is important.

I too met a girl near and dear to me,

However she cut out my heart making me cold and cruel so basically I became evil, I became her devil.

Everyday, I will make her heart bleed and she shall slowly die till I feel warmth again.

The pain she caused me was too much to live with, but not enough to kill me.

educational level? replied by motoway @ Mon, 21 Jul 2008 04:33:57 +0800

motoway — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 04:33:57 +0800

Den me be nun.

educational level? replied by laurence82 @ Mon, 21 Jul 2008 04:24:54 +0800

laurence82 — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 04:24:54 +0800

Originally posted by motoway:

Same or higher for me ba.

what if they dun like u?

educational level? replied by motoway @ Mon, 21 Jul 2008 04:17:33 +0800

motoway — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 04:17:33 +0800

Same or higher for me ba.

educational level? replied by laurence82 @ Mon, 21 Jul 2008 03:40:28 +0800

laurence82 — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 03:40:28 +0800

yes and no

me not looking for scholar or graduates

but me no like super dumb ones

me dont like to everytime i talk to such people

sometimes they also happen to be Master or PhDs holder

educational level? replied by Fatum @ Mon, 21 Jul 2008 03:24:57 +0800

Fatum — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 03:24:57 +0800

don't have to be farking einstein or a scholar lah ......

but if results too bad ...... even if she's not dumb ...... it may be an indication of some defects in her personality or character ..... maybe she's not serious or not responsible enough ? ... right ?

educational level? replied by SiMiLaiEh* @ Mon, 21 Jul 2008 03:07:47 +0800

SiMiLaiEh* — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 03:07:47 +0800

nope but need to at least hav some intelligence

educational level? replied by Karma88 @ Mon, 21 Jul 2008 00:18:23 +0800

Karma88 — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 00:18:23 +0800

No .

As long as chio and know how to think can liao

educational level? replied by 2e3 @ Sun, 20 Jul 2008 22:42:31 +0800

2e3 — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 22:42:31 +0800

yes and no...

it really depends on what your looking for in a partner anyway... but why i ans yes and no is because what we look for in a partner is of course some1 whom you can communicate with on the same level and sadly its most prob that those of a same level of education can better communicate on the same level...

educational level? replied by ghast. @ Sun, 20 Jul 2008 22:37:01 +0800

ghast. — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 22:37:01 +0800

yeah it matters a little la. but to each their own opinion. as long as my boyfriend can support me and a family, what educational level or job should be ok

educational level? replied by icYwATeR @ Sun, 20 Jul 2008 22:29:57 +0800

icYwATeR — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 22:29:57 +0800

i agree that when guy look for girl is no..but girl i think most girl look for highly educated one's. (personal view)

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