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  • youyayu's Avatar
    4,486 posts since Dec '07
    • i got a friend.. like keep sticking to me

      all began at the start of new term and got new classmate

      the teacher whom i know.. ask me talk to that girl then introduce all this.. and i even ask her wanted to be on my team

      ever since.. she been sticking to me like glue.. although she has other friends..


      then.. suddenly when we walk together she will grab on to my hand la .. =.=

      shes quite good looking.. but er =.= mi don't like her leh

      my friend all ask me my stead isit.. mi say no la.. some more i got gf already..

      how sia?

  • Rednano's Avatar
    2,366 posts since May '08
    • Originally posted by youyayu:

      i got a friend.. like keep sticking to me

      all began at the start of new term and got new classmate

      the teacher whom i know.. ask me talk to that girl then introduce all this.. and i even ask her wanted to be on my team

      ever since.. she been sticking to me like glue.. although she has other friends..


      then.. suddenly when we walk together she will grab on to my hand la .. =.=

      shes quite good looking.. but er =.= mi don't like her leh

      my friend all ask me my stead isit.. mi say no la.. some more i got gf already..

      how sia?

      intro to me

       

      from a korean movie 'sad movie':

      Suk-hyeon intends to break up with her jobless lover, Ha-seok, and he begins a separation agency that helps other lovers to break up.

      Edited by Rednano 28 Aug `08, 6:11PM
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  • Fantagf's Avatar
    3,199 posts since Jun '08
    • Hello,TS you have to be assertive, tactful, sensitive to make things clear to her before your gf misunderstands you.   

      Does she know you have gf?

      YOu not doing anything, you are causing more harm later.

  • Rednano's Avatar
    2,366 posts since May '08
    • Originally posted by youyayu:

      i got a friend.. like keep sticking to me

      all began at the start of new term and got new classmate

      the teacher whom i know.. ask me talk to that girl then introduce all this.. and i even ask her wanted to be on my team

      ever since.. she been sticking to me like glue.. although she has other friends..


      then.. suddenly when we walk together she will grab on to my hand la .. =.=

      shes quite good looking.. but er =.= mi don't like her leh

      my friend all ask me my stead isit.. mi say no la.. some more i got gf already..

      how sia?


      say this, 'u r always be my best friend forever !'

  • youyayu's Avatar
    4,486 posts since Dec '07
    • Originally posted by Detached:

      I know saying this may risk getting my 4 years old account banned.

      But...

      NPNT!

      where in the world did this even let u use npnt.. i am asking how to reject a girl and not like those ppl posting in bar os sgsex forum " i am a good looking blah blah looking for girls to fuk*

  • youyayu's Avatar
    4,486 posts since Dec '07
    • Originally posted by Fantagf:

      Hello,TS you have to be assertive, tactful, sensitive to make things clear to her before your gf misunderstands you.   

      Does she know you have gf?

      YOu not doing anything, you are causing more harm later.

      she don't know mi got gf.. i told my gf liao.. my gf understands me 1.. i not those hua xin carrot

  • Detached's Avatar
    4,157 posts since Sep '04
    • Originally posted by youyayu:

      where in the world did this even let u use npnt.. i am asking how to reject a girl and not like those ppl posting in bar os sgsex forum " i am a good looking blah blah looking for girls to fuk*


      Thanks for the good attitude.

      I guess that is one good way for her to reject you, just show her this side of you and problem solved. icon_biggrin.gif

       

      Edit: And don't you ever question my right to free speech.

      Edited by Detached 28 Aug `08, 6:28PM
  • skeujin's Avatar
    24,610 posts since Dec '02
  • youyayu's Avatar
    4,486 posts since Dec '07
    • Originally posted by FireIce:

      i getting married liao
      u must come 喝喜酒 ok?

      my ah yi this sundae married leh... lol when is yours

  • Rednano's Avatar
    2,366 posts since May '08
    • Originally posted by youyayu:

      my ah yi this sundae married leh... lol when is yours


      lol... problem become chit chat thread...

  • youyayu's Avatar
    4,486 posts since Dec '07
  • 4sg's Avatar
    512 posts since Jan '04
    • Youyayu

      Are u in sec sch or poly? and if u dun mind me saying this....


      At your age serious girl/boy relationship should be out....whether u have girl friend or she like u ....not impt.


      The most impt thing is.....if u find her pesty and u have to reject her .... reject her NICELY, dun hurt her feeling in anyway..... 

  • youyayu's Avatar
    4,486 posts since Dec '07
    • Originally posted by 4sg:

      Youyayu

      Are u in sec sch or poly? and if u dun mind me saying this....


      At your age serious girl/boy relationship should be out....whether u have girl friend or she like u ....not impt.


      The most impt thing is.....if u find her pesty and u have to reject her .... reject her NICELY, dun hurt her feeling in anyway..... 

      i know =.= but how..

  • XxYaNxX's Avatar
    1,229 posts since Jan '08
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    94 posts since Jun '08
  • 4sg's Avatar
    512 posts since Jan '04
    • Originally posted by youyayu:

      i know =.= but how..

      Depend on the gal lah... wat type is she?
      intro or extrovert?
      mood swing or mature type?
      flirty/vain or quiet type? etc

      Cannot tell u how on forum n it would wrong or misleading to do so. You have to make your own judgement ....

      Sometimes u just can't control a person or situation but go along and try your best to handle it...... it is part of growing up.

      I tell you this, even as an adult, I come across the situation u now face.

      I can only say this ......no one two women is the same, no two situations is alike. Dun worry about 'how to reject' things, just concentrate on your study and dun hurt her feeling.

      1) Because for a girl to show her feeling - it takes a lot of courage.
      2) She is at the age where a rejection from a guy can hurt her for life (but not all girl are like that...depend on her character).

       

        
         

      Edited by 4sg 28 Aug `08, 9:22PM
  • Daisuke-kun's Avatar
    13,548 posts since Jun '07
  • 00king00's Avatar
    172 posts since Jun '08
    • y is it so hard?? not as if u 2 hav started on anything

      if she stick juz let her stick la, but if she hold yr hand then no-no, just tell her nicely "sorry, i alr hav a gf, like dis not very nice", add a slight smile to say u meant no offence

       

  • the_fallen's Avatar
    1,274 posts since Aug '06
    • if u want her to stop all those stuffs..

      just be frank, and direct..yet gentle in approaching the issue and talk to her about it.

      just be a gentleman

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    68,095 posts since Feb '04
  • Fantagf's Avatar
    3,199 posts since Jun '08
    • Originally posted by youyayu:

      she don't know mi got gf.. i told my gf liao.. my gf understands me 1.. i not those hua xin carrot

      Simple lah, in her presence when your gf called just used term of endearment to address your gf, "Honey", "Sweetheart", "Dear" and so on, then tell her your gf just called.    Or when you are with her and you are meeting your gf after that you can ask her where she will be going, then tell her that for you you will be meeting your gf. 

  • SGpork's Avatar
    68,095 posts since Feb '04
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